Posted on October 13, 2023 in Spousal Maintenance

Alimony, otherwise known as spousal maintenance, can have a big impact on both the one paying it and the one receiving it. It can greatly affect their finances and is a major consideration in their financial planning. Without it, many more unhappy couples would likely remain married. Why? If one spouse has filled the "homemaker" role while the other has developed their career, the nonworking spouse would otherwise have no way to finance their life if they divorced. The spouse who spent all those years working and earning would have been unable to do so if the other spouse had not stepped up at home, giving them the freedom and ability to go off to work. Recognizing this, the courts have formulated methods to calculate spousal maintenance payments. If you are considering divorce but have questions about alimony, a DuPage County, IL divorce lawyer can help clear up some of the confusion.

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 Posted on October 11, 2023 in Property Division

When a couple goes through a divorce, there are countless things they need to agree about. Who will pay spousal support? What happens to the engagement ring? Will one benefit from the other’s pension? If they have children, they need to decide where the children will live and how often they will be with each parent. If the couple owns a home, they will need to decide who will become the sole owner of that home. If you are planning a divorce and are unsure of the future of your family home, a Kane County, IL property division attorney can answer your questions.

The Future of a Family Home Can Be Complicated

When a couple gets divorced, their home can become a point of contention. They may both want to stay in the home. They may both want to move away. It could be a source of painful memories, but at the same time, it can serve as a comfort for children who are familiar with it and seeking stability in a time of transition and change. Money can be divided, but a home can not, and if both spouses wish to keep it, property division can become a source of much stress and negativity.

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 Posted on October 06, 2023 in Divorce

Divorce can be a complicated process for any couple to go through. If you have children, you will need to decide which parent has which rights and responsibilities. If you own a home, you will need to decide what will happen with that property in the divorce settlement. If you have any assets, those will need to be divided in some way. And if either spouse has incurred debt, that is another difficult matter that requires resolution. If you are considering divorce but are concerned about how debt division might affect you, a DuPage County, IL divorce attorney will be able to shed light on this sometimes confusing topic.

What Is an Equitable Distribution State?

The majority of states, including the State of Illinois, are considered "equitable distribution states." This means that instead of dividing a couple’s assets equally in a divorce settlement, a different calculation is used to determine the fairest way to distribute everything. Rather than taking everything the couple has acquired and dividing it all down the middle, the courts will take into account all their shared assets, debts, the duration of the marriage, each spouse’s unique needs, and other information.

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 Posted on October 05, 2023 in Family Law

In the State of Illinois, accusations of domestic violence and abuse are taken extremely seriously by the courts. There are various steps victims of abuse can take to try to protect themselves and their children. An Order of Protection, commonly known as a restraining order, can be granted by the court to prohibit the alleged abuser from doing things such as physically going somewhere - in this case, their home. An Emergency Order of Protection is a specific type of protective order that can be granted almost immediately.

It is great that the local authorities will do whatever they can to protect the victims of abuse. Unfortunately, some people take advantage of these procedures and falsely accuse their spouse of abuse for their own gain. If you have been falsely accused of abuse and have an Emergency Order of Protection that is keeping you from seeing your children, an experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can help guide you through this delicate and painful situation.

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 Posted on September 29, 2023 in Paternity

When a married couple has children after they are legally wedded, their roles as parents are not typically called into question. If they later get divorced, their parenting rights and responsibilities are then divided up in the divorce settlement. If one parent violates the terms of the divorce settlement, the other parent will have ways to enforce the agreement.

If a child is born to unmarried parents, this can be more complicated. A single woman giving birth is automatically considered the child’s mother. However, the father of that child will need to prove that he is the father. If you are single, about to become a father, and want to make sure your parental rights are protected, a Kane County, IL paternity lawyer can explain the process of establishing paternity.

How Can I Establish Paternity?

Even though an unmarried father is not automatically recognized as a parent, he can legally prove his parental relationship. In Illinois, this is known as “establishing parentage”, and can be done in several ways:

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 Posted on September 28, 2023 in Child Support

When parents are going through a divorce, one of the many issues that need to be worked out in the divorce settlement is child support. Married parents are free to manage their family finances in private. Once they get divorced, however, the court has the authority to mandate which parent needs to pay what amount and when.

When there is a plan in place for child support payments, both parents can arrange their finances around this. They know how much money they can expect to pay or receive from the other and how regularly. If one parent decides to simply stop paying, it can leave the other parent scrambling to cover costs related to their child. If you are a divorced parent and your ex has stopped making their child support payments, you should speak with a Kane County, IL divorce lawyer to figure out how best to proceed.

How Can I Get My Ex to Pay Child Support Again?

If your ex has stopped making their child support payments, it can put you in a stressful and uncomfortable situation. You expect to receive that money, and that is how you planned to finance what your child needed that month. While you may find yourself under financial pressure and you may feel frustrated or angry toward your ex, keep in mind that there are ways to resolve this.

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 Posted on September 27, 2023 in Uncategorized

You have decided that divorce is the right step for you, but how should you move forward now? Divorce does not have to be terrible, and in fact, many people can feel an enormous sense of relief once it is over. However, if you want a desirable outcome in your divorce settlement, coming prepared is the best thing you do. A DuPage County, IL divorce attorney can explain all the aspects of a divorce to help you prepare as best you can.

Where Do I Even Begin?

The first thing you should do if you are convinced that divorce is in your future is to find a lawyer to represent you and your best interests. You should seek a law firm that has experience dealing with divorce. If there are any special circumstances about your divorce - for example, if you have young children, if this will be a high-asset divorce, if you and your spouse co-own a business - you will want to make sure the law firm you chose has dealt with similar cases in the past.

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 Posted on September 21, 2023 in Divorce

People used to assume that when a couple got divorced, most parental responsibilities would be granted to the mother. While the law varies by state, that is no longer the assumption. Today, these arrangements are based on many factors. If you are a father who is concerned that your spouse could get all or most parental responsibilities in a divorce settlement, an experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can explain the process to you.

Parental Distribution of Responsibilities Has Changed over Time

Not so long ago, American society held some generally accepted views on gender roles in parenting. Fathers were expected to be the main breadwinners, going off to work all day to earn the money that the family needed. They were not generally as involved as their wives in raising their children, because they were busy making a living. It was also assumed that mothers would handle the child-rearing and household responsibilities. They were not expected to contribute to the family budget because they were busy dealing with the family’s non-financial needs.

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 Posted on September 19, 2023 in Divorce

Infidelity in marriage is becoming increasingly common. In some states across America, cheating could be enough for a court to grant the other spouse full custody and other beneficial terms in a divorce. In the State of Illinois, which is considered a "no-fault" state, neither spouse is considered responsible for a marriage breaking apart and both need to share parental responsibilities regardless of why they are splitting up.

You may have cheated on your spouse, but that has nothing to do with how you are as a parent. If you are a parent thinking about divorce in the State of Illinois and you had an affair, a DuPage County, IL divorce lawyer can help you understand the process and advocate on your behalf.

What Is a No-Fault Divorce State?

In the past, people needed to prove to the courts why they deserved to be granted a divorce. They needed to provide the court with their "grounds for divorce." Grounds generally included abuse, infidelity, or abandonment. But in 2016, the State of Illinois decided that from then on, couples no longer need to present the grounds for their divorce. Neither spouse needs to worry that their reputation will be ruined in divorce court.

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 Posted on September 15, 2023 in Divorce

Often, when we think about parents going through a divorce, we imagine the couple trying to figure out how they will split custody, who will take the children to soccer practice or ballet class, and where the children will spend their holidays.

However, parents can decide to get a divorce at any stage in their life, and this can happen when a family has older children as well. A question that often comes up in Illinois divorce is how the child’s college education will be paid for if the parents are no longer acting as a unit. College expenses are constantly on the rise, which is why this can be a very important issue to work out during divorce proceedings. An experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can help guide you through the process.

My Spouse and I Cannot Agree on Anything. How Will We Work Together to Pay For Our Child’s Degree?

Child support used to be a payment that divorced parents took into consideration until their children turned 18 years old. Nowadays, that is not always the case. Illinois judges have been increasingly requiring divorcing parents to form a plan for financing their children’s college education if they have the financial ability to do so.

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